Birthdays are a great day to say thank you for another one

​When I was a young kid growing up on my great-grandpa's farm, I remember him having a birthday. It was one of those big number birthdays. I was just getting to the age where I realized old people die. And so, in some ways, I was afraid to say happy birthday to him, thinking maybe if I did I'd be reminding him he was about to die.

Still, bravely, as I met him in the barnyard when he was starting the chores, I hesitantly said "happy birthday."

He, with shocking joy, said, "thank you."

Puzzled, I asked him, doesn't it bother you you're having a birthday?

I think somehow, sensing what I was getting at, he said to me, "You either get a birthday or you don't. When I get one I'm going to celebrate it." Then he walked away like it was just another day on the farm.

I've never forgotten those words. You either get one of your don't.

More and more, as I get to my big numbers, I think birthdays come with obligation. If you get one, you sort of owe the world something for that gift. I think the way we impact the world is a thank you for that "I got another one."

I read something recently that said we should always be putting ourselves in the best places and positions to be our best selves. Well, I just want to say to all of you who reached out today, overwhelming me with kindness and encouragement and good wishes, you are all a part of my best self. I'm grateful for each of you.

Today you helped me celebrate getting one more.

Be well and God bless you all.